PHQ | QUESTIONS: Advice For NT Women
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PHQ | QUESTIONS FROM COMMUNITY: In this episode Joel and Antonia answer a listener question about how Intuitive Thinker women express feminine energy.
In this podcast you’ll find:
- Find like minded people who are similar to you. Fellow NT females.
- Thinker Female vs. Feeler Male podcast
- How to maintain a sense of femininity as a Thinker female is an important question.
- The models of behavior that we see around us are societal constructs.
- Intuitive Thinker females often feel like men trapped in women’s bodies because they run counter to the social construct of the stereotypical female.
- Thinker females often feel excluded from a sense of sisterhood or standard definitions of femininity.
- Most women have bought the premise of women being a certain way. The ones who match the pattern can connect with each other because they work together to reinforce the societal meme.
- Most Feeler women aren’t aware that Thinkers feel excluded.
- NT women may not fully integrate into the sisterhood community, ever. There will always be a piece that is missing. There will always be some misunderstanding between Feeler and Thinker women.
- It’s important for Thinker women to show up as their authentic selves, so other Thinker women don’t feel alienated.
- The highest demographic of women are Feelers, so most events seem targeted at feeler women who show up a certain way.
- The concept of Thinker women being feminine and part of the sisterhood seems to be missing.
- The ideal would be to create movements where Thinkers and Feelers alike can feel understood and welcomed.
- We need to separate feminine/masculine definitions from gender.
- Some men have feminine energy and some women have masculine energy.
- David Deida
- Masculine energy is slow. Still. A container. Creates safe space.
- Feminine energy is in motion. A dance. Beautiful. Seductive.
- Feminine energy needs the safety of masculine energy to show up in that dance.
- When you are attracted to somebody, it is usually the polarity of Masculine/Feminine energies that create the attraction – regardless of gender.
- Where do you have a tendency to land?
- Thinker women can seem very masculine when sharing data, and feminine the rest of the time.
- Playfulness can be a very feminine expression.
- What areas of your life contain that feminine energy?
- Look at different models of feminine and masculine energy. You may be overvaluing what you think are feminine or masculine stereotypes.
- Rest into the energy you bring.
- Femininity is a subjective construct.
- Femininity may be very subtle, and there is beauty in subtlety.
- We look at behaviors coming from certain types. Fe is all about connection and harmony in the outside world. 50% of the female population use Fe. So, we gauge femininity by that cognitive function.
- That isn’t femininity. That is just Fe.
- There are stereotypes in society that indicate women are supposed to be emotionally and socially intelligent.
- Thinker women will demonstrate intelligence that is logical and data driven, which society considers a more masculine intelligence.
- DON’T DUMB DOWN YOUR INTELLIGENCE.
- Show up as you are wired.
- Don’t get defensive.
- Let people have their tropes and live your life as authentically as possible.
- Life is going to give you obstructions no matter who you are.
- Go around the obstructions and get your goals accomplished in whatever way you can.
- Know yourself. Know what you want.
- What do you want out of life? Use your Thinker mind to reach your goals.
- Fully recognize your femininity in whatever ways you express it.
- Never defend your brilliant mind. Let the world come to you.
- The people in your life that are supposed to be there will stick around because they value your gifts.
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