In our Couples Mapping program, we talk a lot about how you and your partner show each other love.
We make a lot of assumptions in relationships. It’s easy to do. Our culture often forces us to see most relationships as the same. People giving relationship advice make blanket statements about HOW partnerships must look.
But you and I know that each romantic partner is wired differently based on their unique personality. And so one partner may be looking for “signs of love” from the other.
If we don’t receive our expected “sign of love” it can feel like a rejection. Or worse, when we try to send an expression of love our partner doesn’t see it or they criticize it from lack of understanding. Your parter may be showing you love right now and you’re blind to it because of your personality differences.
It can be challenging for for many to understand their Authenticity partner.
These types feel depths of inner emotions that are in need of constant reflection and refinement. To others this can appear as contradictory behaviors or inscrutability.
When an authenticity user says “I Love You” it may not be with words.
In fact, your partner letting you be your true self may be the greatest signal of love they can give.
In fact, we recorded the this video about Authenticity users and how they show love to their partners.
Create A Side-By-Side Map Of Each Other’s Personalities To Be Truly Seen, Accepted And Understood By Your Partner, And Wake Up Happy Together
What if your partner just ‘got you’? What if the things that drive you crazy became your favorite parts? What if you didn’t avoid communication, but instead raced home to talk over your day? What if they were the person you trusted most with your emotions?