In our Couples Mapping program, we talk a lot about how you and your partner show each other love.
We make a lot of assumptions in relationships. It’s easy to do. Our culture often forces us to see most relationships as the same. People giving relationship advice make blanket statements about HOW partnerships must look.
But you and I know that each romantic partner is wired differently based on their unique personality. And so one partner may be looking for “signs of love” from the other.
If we don’t receive our expected “sign of love” it can feel like a rejection. Or worse, when we try to send an expression of love our partner doesn’t see it or they criticize it from lack of understanding. Your parter may be showing you love right now and you’re blind to it because of your personality differences.
When it comes to romance and love, the four personality types that use the decision making process of Accuracy (Introverted Thinking) can have the hardest time being understood. It’s because Accuracy users are showing love through radical honesty, truth, and competence.
“Competence? Are you saying that my xxTP partner is showing me love through THEIR competence?”
In fact, we recorded the this video about Accuracy users and how they show love to their partners.
Create A Side-By-Side Map Of Each Other’s Personalities To Be Truly Seen, Accepted And Understood By Your Partner, And Wake Up Happy Together
What if your partner just ‘got you’? What if the things that drive you crazy became your favorite parts? What if you didn’t avoid communication, but instead raced home to talk over your day? What if they were the person you trusted most with your emotions?