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Love that you all filmed this on your back deck! Looks so peaceful!
Most of my life was spent with a self-loathing that I never understood – except that I was very different from everyone else.
It turns out that I’m an INFJ – 66 year old male – and now I can start putting the pieces together. I do have a very small number of people who “get” me, [almost all women] and we’re quite close, but there’s always an overwhelming yearning for emotional bonding. I had this with my best friend, a lady who I care-gave and helped steer through Lou Gehrig’s Disease, a cruel affliction if there ever was one. She passed away in early April/2018, and the grief I’ve experienced has been very scary and relentless.
One of my close lady friends told me that she felt that I had the head of a man and the heart of a woman – I had never had such a wonderful observational compliment.
Extreme loneliness is my constant companion.
Never mind, I got it now. Listened to the Podcast on the FIRM model and Antonia said it’s based on the Dominant function of Ni for us, or an introverted perceiving function. Interesting, so now I know why she’s anxious/avoidant. Just have to figure out how to meet her needs so she’s more secure. Not sure how to make someone feel more invulnerable.
So what I’m understanding is that all parts of the FIRM model can show up at different times. If I’m an INTJ and she’s an INFJ, we both can feel a need for invulnerability and she may also may have the rightness issue as well, since she uses Ti. Or does this only apply to the first two functions?