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PHQ | QUESTIONS FROM COMMUNITY: In this episode Joel and Antonia answer a question about INFJ personality relationships and two INFJs in a romantic relationship.


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  • Charis Branson
    • Charis Branson
    • June 29, 2015 at 1:23 pm

    Thanks for the question, Rachel! There is a lot of truth to the saying, “Opposites attract.” Thinkers/Feelers are very polarizing for one another, and can make some great partners. Thinkers remind feelers to be a little more objective, and feelers remind thinkers to be a little less data driven.

    Sensor and intuitive pairings are going to happen since there are far fewer intuitives than sensors. These relationships are not always the most successful, but can be. The important thing is for the intuitive to make sure they are getting the kind of theoretical conversation that feeds their soul.

    In response to your question, yes polarities exist. We have a great program available called Personalities in Dating & Attraction. It delves deep into the types of personalities that make the best pairings and how to speed read people in such a way to determine who is your best fit match.

    I strongly recommend it! It is really fascinating:

  • Kelly
    • Kelly
    • June 29, 2015 at 8:10 am

    Thankyou for making my question a podcast :D
    My partner listened to your podcast and then read your article on the INTJ type. he totally spun out and said it was unbelievably accurate and felt true to him (you guys are psychic haha). I found this interesting because My best mate of 16 years is also an INTJ! I guess I know what I like ;)
    Rachel, I love that question!!
    One more thing, I’d love to hear peoples opinions on profiling children? (Your own children that is haha) it almost feels like an invasion of privacy like I’d be treating him like a psychology experiment but I’d love to understand how my son learns, not to be controlling or anything but just to be able to support him in the way he might need. As an INFJ I think I’ve gone ‘emotionally cold’ over the years and am worried I won’t be able to understand his needs. First time mummy stress or worth thinking about?

  • Rachel
    • Rachel
    • June 22, 2015 at 10:32 pm

    Is it common for people to be drawn to their mbti opposite? For example, I as an INFP am drawn to people of the ISTP personality type. My friend, and INTJ, has been in several relationships with ISFJs. I’m wondering if this is a common occurrence, and if there is even a theory behind why this could happen.

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