Podcast - Episode 0291 - Important Childhood Lessons For IxxPs and ExxJs

In this podcast you’ll find:

• Check out part 1 in this series to discover the important childhood lessons for ExxPs and IxxJs, and learn the concepts we build upon in this episode.
• How these episodes relate to the FIRM model – learn about this model created by Joel and Antonia here.
  • What do the letters in the FIRM model stand for?
  • How can your type’s FIRM fixation result in creating strategies that prevent you from learning life’s lessons?
• IxxPs – the lessons they can learn to navigate through their “Rightness” fixation:
  • What do we mean by the term “Rightness”?
  • What does it mean to lead with an introverted judging function as your Driver process?
  • How IxxPs avoid “exposure”.
  • The powerful tool of self-discipline and motivation for IxxPs.
  • Learning to adopt rituals in your daily life as an IxxP.
  • Why do IxxP types struggle to get going in the first place?
  • How getting into a rhythm can prevent IxxPs from undermining the systems around them.
  • Why integrating changes at the identity level is the key to success as an IxxP.
  • The importance of having a channel to the outside world as an IxxP.
    • The role of articulation and expression.
• IxxPs as children – what are the two main ways they tend to show up?
  • How can you help an IxxP child overcome their fear of judgment?
  • How can you integrate these lessons as an IxxP adult?
  • What are the main things you need to be aware of if you’re a parent who’s an IxxP type?
• ExxJs – the lessons they can learn to navigate through their “Management” fixation:
  • What do we mean by “management?”?
  • What does it mean to lead with an extraverted judging function as your Driver process?
  • Why having an introverted judging function as your 3-Yr-Old can result in a lack of internal calibration.
  • How you can slow down as an ExxJ type – and the results you’ll see when this starts to happen.
  • Getting in touch with your “why” as an ExxJ.
  • The ExxJs ability to create neural superhighways.
  • Examining the dark side of the delayed consequences ExxJs face – and how this differs from the IxxPs’ experience.
  • The importance of setting the right metrics as an ExxJ.
  • Overcoming image management.
• How both ExxJ and IxxP types can paint themselves into a corner based on the identity they project to the world.
  • How you can help ExxJ or IxxP children overcome this tendency.