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In this episode, Joel and Antonia talk with Profiler Training alumni, Gary Williams about his lived experience as an INFJ personality type.


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In this podcast you’ll find:

  • Guest Host Gary, INFJ, joins.
  • Download our INFJ Personality Type Handy Guide to learn about the INFJ functions.
  • How did Gary discover his personality type?
  • Why does Gary choose to use his Copilot Harmony (Extraverted Feeling) to show up with an energy that seems more extraverted than introverted?
  • Is it important for Gary to have time alone?
  • What advice would Gary give to an Introvert getting into their extraverted Copilot?
  • How does Gary use Perspectives (Introverted Intuition) to make sure that he will have enough energy in social settings?
    • What important purpose does Gary’s Sensation (Extraverted Sensing) 3 Year Old serve?
  • Gary shares some important considerations in how he has designed his life.
  • Why has Gary overidentified with his Accuracy 10 Year Old function (Introverted Thinking)in the past to the extent that he mistyped himself twice?
  • How is it for Gary to be a man who has a preference for Harmony (Extraverted Feeling)?
  • How does Gary use Accuracy (Introverted Thinking) and Harmony (Extraverted Feeling) to help others get to the truth?
  • Can an INFJ feel like they are more harsh than they actually are?
  • What is Gary’s relationship to his Sensation (Extraverted Sensing 3 Year Old )?
  • Which INFJ stereotypes does Gary identify with and which does he not identify with?
  • What advice would Gary give to his younger self?

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  • Ryan INFP
    • Ryan INFP
    • May 2, 2022 at 11:21 am

    There is something i do not understand NI is visionary it is not just using their own perspective it could be any ones perspective Gary expressed is NI in a very NE style. Example i say i will make the best pizza in the uk and i will think of a million ways of achieving this an NI user will create one way they consider best and run with it unless they get told a million ways of doing it and then they will pick the best way. They will be amazing at it once they find it.

  • Antonia Dodge
    • Antonia Dodge
    • April 29, 2022 at 2:45 am

    Gary is both knowledgeable about type and self-aware, so I’d recommend listening to the interview and expanding your definitions of what an INFJ on a growth journey can look like.

    Also – People being the same type but showing up as different variations on a theme happens all the time. Gary being an INFJ doesn’t mean the people in your life aren’t also INFJs. :)


  • Ryan INFP
    • Ryan INFP
    • May 1, 2022 at 8:39 am

    Listened again Gary must be creative subtype enneagram 5.

  • Mel
    • Mel
    • April 28, 2022 at 7:57 pm

    Gary didn’t sound like an INFJ to me either, sounded more like an ENFP or INFP.

    Most people end up typing themselves in the beginning more based on their tertiary and inferior functions rather than their dominant and auxiliary.

  • Brendi
    • Brendi
    • April 29, 2022 at 6:05 pm

    People question that I am an INFJ, but I identify with all of what Gary was describing and it confirms my type for me. I think the thing is that when you combine enneagram type with MBTI INFJ’s especially will look different from each other. I’m an enneagram sp/sx 641. I seem very different from an acquaintance that is an INFJ sx/sp 478. People forget that MBTI is your hardware and the way make decisions and enneagram type is your software and the motivation the influences your decision.

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