INFJ Owners Manual - PersonalityHacker

You Are An INFJ!

Let's dig into how to make this work for you in love, career and life.

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INFJs help humanity process deep emotions

As an INFJ, your mind is fundamentally wired differently from other personality types.

You grew up intuiting things that other people missed. You weren't always right in your conclusions, but you were right often enough to build trust in your intuition. When you shared your insights with others they demanded proof, something your intuition couldn't provide (yet).

From here the story goes a couple of ways. Unfortunately, 'vindication' is rarely the outcome. Either way, you learned to keep your insights to yourself.

Then you learned the hard way that there's one thing you should always keep to yourself: this weird and inexplicable phenomenon of absorbing other people's emotions.

Absorbing other's emotions came so naturally to you at such a young age, you assumed it was happening to everyone else, too... until it dawned on you that nobody knew what you were talking about.

You needed resources and mentors to help navigate this burden. If you didn't find these resources, you ran to the part of your personality that is cold, detached and critical.

Being critical never feels good - it is not you - but it helps you survive the cascading torrent of other people's emotions assaulting you every day.

It's not all bad news, though! Many INFJs have overcome these pain points to live happy, authentic, and meaningful lives.

"The Unacknowledged Struggles of the INFJ Personality Type"

Do you feel misunderstood by others and struggle with absorbing other people's emotions?

Then you learned the hard way that there's one thing you should always keep to yourself: this weird and inexplicable phenomenon of absorbing other people's emotions. Absorbing other's emotions came so naturally to you at such a young age, you assumed it was happening to everyone else, too... until it dawned on you that nobody knew what you were talking about.

Top 5 INFJ Challenges:

  • Setting & Maintaining Boundaries
  • Absorbing Other People's Emotions
  • Feeling Misunderstood in Relationships
  • Finding Purpose & Meaning
  • Managing Energy / Feeling Over Stimulated

At Personality Hacker, we've worked with hundreds of INFJs who have faced and overcome these challenges and others. And today, we want to help you do the same.

"How INFJs Win Big (or Lose Big) in Business, Romance, and LIFE"

The first step to hacking your personality to achieve massive growth and success in all areas of your life is understanding it. Let's start with your four letters. What do they mean?

I — INTROVERTED

For you, the internal world is the 'real world'. The real world for Extraverted (E) types is the external world.

N — INTUITIVE

You focus on meaning and pattern recognition. Sensing (S) types focus on what they observe with their 5+ senses.

F — FEELER

You make decisions using personal criteria like human emotions and dynamics. Thinking (T) types prioritize impersonal criteria like data and metrics.

J — JUDGING

You prefer structure around you to free your mind and thoughts. Perceiving (P) types prefer freedom in the world around them and create structure internally.

"Inside the Mind of the INFJ: Your Four Cognitive Functions"

Let's pretend your mind is a four passenger vehicle. These four 'passengers' represent four distinct mental processes which influence you the most.

YOUR DRIVER is Introverted Intuition (Nickname: "Perspectives")

Information processing through insights and patterns that come from within. Often deep thinkers who have a strong sense of purpose and vision for the future. Skilled at seeing the big picture and anticipating future possibilities.

YOUR CO-PILOT is Extraverted Feeling (Nickname: "Harmony")

Evaluating the emotions and needs of others in the external world. It helps people maintain social harmony and resolve conflicts. When developed, helps with boundary setting.

YOUR 3 YEAR OLD is Extraverted Sensing (Nickname: "Sensation")

Involves being in tune with the sensory experiences of the external world. As a "3 Year Old," may be overwhelmed by sensory stimuli, struggle to be present and/or hesitate to take action. Integration is often needed.

YOUR 10 YEAR OLD is Introverted Thinking (Nickname: "Accuracy")

Involves analyzing information logically and critically. Can be uncertain and overcompensate through perfectionism.

"Three Things You Can Do Today to Reach Epic Levels Of Growth"

1. Develop Your Co-Pilot Function

First, starting today, you need to dedicate careful time and attention to developing your co-pilot function of Extraverted Feeling ("Harmony"). This is the #1 thing you can do to grow right now. Without a strong co-pilot, you're going to stay stuck in the same place with the same old challenges. This is done by focusing on where you end and other people begin. This function is crucial for creating boundaries.

2. Manage Your 10 Year Old

Second, you need to become aware of your 10 Year Old Introverted Thinking ("Accuracy") and how it hijacks your personality, steering you away from where you actually want to go. It is the inner critic that helps you get distance from others, but can send you into a perfectionistic tailspin. Developing strategies for dealing with this, and getting yourself back on track is essential to success.

3. Honor Your 3 Year Old

Third, your 3 Year Old Extraverted Sensing ("Sensation") needs attention too. Learn how to give your 3 Year Old function what it needs to keep you safe, healthy, and on the right track. It can be easy to ignore if it feels like too much stimulation, but it's also how you gain energy, become present to the moment, and feel maximum aliveness.

Now we've got some good news and bad news.

The good news is that some people naturally learn to do all three of these over a lifetime.

The bad news is that even for them this can take years and years of pain, frustration, and missed opportunities before they figure it out.

Fortunately at Personality Hacker, we have developed a shortcut. We've assisted hundreds of INFJs in developing their personality. We want to work with you too.

What's Inside Your INFJ Owners Manual

MODULE 1

INFJ Type Fundamentals

In this module we are going to start unpacking your INFJ personality in greater detail. Let's start with an overview of your type and then begin zooming in to identify four styles of INFJs. Next, you will learn about the dichotomies and dive deeper into your "Car Model" - a framework for understanding what is technically called your cognitive function stack. Finally, we end this module with a discussion about some of the specific challenges you face in the world as an INFJ.

  • INFJ Personality Type Overview: Learn about the traits, tendencies, and preferences of the INFJ personality type in this comprehensive video overview.
  • The 4 Styles of The INFJ Personality: Discover the four unique styles of the INFJ personality and gain insight into how they impact your life and relationships.
  • Understanding The 4 Letters INFJ: Explore the dichotomies that define the INFJ personality type and learn how they shape your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
  • The INFJ Car Model: Get a visual explanation of how the different parts of your personality work together (or sometimes against each other) with this fun, animated presentation on the INFJ Car Model.
  • INFJ Type Specific Challenges: Explore the common challenges that the INFJ personality type faces in life and learn how to overcome them.
MODULE 2

Finding Flow With Your Personality

Finding and maintaining flow for your life can make or break your success in the world. When you are in flow you still face challenges, but your life is setup so it works WITH your natural personality and style, not against it. In this module we are going to define and explain flow, show you how to find flow with all four parts of your car model, and overcome any challenges or obstacles that might be in your way.

  • Using Personality To Find Flow: Discover how to use your personality type to find flow in your work, relationships, and everyday life.
  • Finding Flow As An INFJ: A detailed explanation of how to use all four cognitive functions to achieve flow and improve your life as an INFJ.
  • Overcoming INFJ Challenges to Flow: Learn how to overcome the challenges that can hold you back from finding flow as an INFJ and achieving your goals.
MODULE 3

Navigating Personality Blind Spots: Loops & Grips

As you go about navigating your INFJ personal growth journey, some of the biggest challenges will come from what are called "loops" and "grips." In this module we are going to explain loops and grips, identify three styles of each, and give you a practical action plan to avoid or overcome these obstacles when they rear their ugly head.

  • Personality Loops & Grips Explained: Understand the loops and grips that can hold you back as an INFJ, and learn how to identify and overcome them.
  • 3 Styles of INFJ Loops: Discover the three types of loops that can impact the INFJ personality type and how to avoid getting stuck in them.
  • 3 Styles of INFJ Grips: Explore the three types of grips that can impact the INFJ personality type and learn how to overcome them.
MODULE 4

INFJ Fixations

We are going to focus on your INFJ personality fixation for creating and maintaining a sense of control in your life. Different personality types have different control fixations based on their cognitive functions. In this module we will show you an overview of control fixations for all personalities, the one that you use specifically as an INFJ, and action steps to overcome it.

  • INFJ Fixation Explained: Learn about the FIRM fixation of invulnerability and how it can affect the INFJ personality type.
  • FIRM Fixation: Invulnerability: Understand the FIRM fixation of invulnerability and how to address it as an INFJ.
MODULE 5

INFJ Toolbox

In this module we outline specific "Tools Of Action" and steps you can begin taking in your life to grow yourself as an INFJ. Each of the tools in this toolbox is created from years of coaching and working with INFJs helping them find practical and actionable changes to grow and develop. Spend time understanding each tool and be sure to actually do the exercises. INFJs that we've coached have seen massive personal growth from implementing the techniques and strategies we suggest.

  • Tool - INFJ Finding Flow: Use this tool to help you get into flow quickly and consistently and improve your productivity and happiness.
  • Tool - INFJ Developing Your Co-Pilot: This tool is designed to help you develop the Co-Pilot (auxiliary) cognitive function in your personality.
  • Tool - Honoring Your 3-Year-Old: This tool is designed to help you honor your 3-Year-Old (inferior) cognitive function in your personality.
  • Tool - Crafting A Vision For Your Ideal Day: This tool is designed to help you create a vision for the ideal day-to-day experience of your life.

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INFJ "About Me" Guides

Each of these guides is designed for you to give to others to explain you. Includes a guide to give to your partner/spouse and guide for your co-workers or boss.

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INFJ Side-By-Side Relationship Type Pairings

We detail how your type interacts in a relationship with all 16 of the Myers Briggs types. The good, the bad, and the ugly. We cover the challenges, rewards, and advice for improved compatibility.

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Transcending Type Training

Knowing your type is a powerful tool. The most powerful tools must be used responsibly. A hammer can help build a house or bludgeon someone to death. This bonus training guides you to the best and most healthy relationship you can have with your personality type, and reminds you to always use your understanding for building yourself up, never bludgeoning yourself (or others).

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What Your INFJ Personality Development Owners Manual Will Do For You:

  • Stop being assaulted or poisoned by other people's emotions
  • Discover why your personality gets lost in one-sided relationships, and learn how to stand up for your identity in healthy interdependent partnerships
  • Learn how to optimize your dormant talent of lifting morale and getting others needs met to crush your business goals
  • Rapidly develop your co-pilot function of Extraverted Feeling and develop healthy boundaries in healthy relationships
  • Become the leader others want to follow by developing natural leadership skills
  • How to avoid the top 3 energy drains for your INFJ type and how to manage stress
  • Discover your business "power partner" who complements your strengths & weaknesses and can drive each other toward career and financial success
  • Shine a bright light on your blind-spot and stop it from tripping you up
  • Yes - you are different! Finally be able to explain to others how your mind works
  • Do the single most important thing you can do for your personality type to advance your goals and achieve success

Created By Two Personal Growth Teachers

Joel Mark Witt & Antonia Dodge

This Owners Manual is designed by two personal growth teachers who credit much of their own success to the techniques you're about to learn. They each bring their unique skills into this program.

As a teenager, Antonia Dodge began studying personality types to understand how people tick and learn how to connect and relate to others. The results changed her life and she was hooked. Years later, she's developed and co-developed over 10 personal growth programs, coaches others in how to understand their personality and find the right personal growth path tailored to them.

Joel Mark Witt is a digital media entrepreneur with over two decades of business experience. His life changed when he truly understood that his personality was wired to give back to the world in a big way. He immediately gave himself permission to be his authentic self - quit his day job - and helped build Personality Hacker into a growing movement.

In this Personality Development Owners Manual, Joel & Antonia show you the concrete structure and frameworks that power the mental wiring of your mind and the daily practices needed for personal growth.

A System Backed by Science and Research

Author, Former UCLA professor, and personality typology expert Dario Nardi, has been doing research on the neuroscience of personality. His work with EEG machines and brain wave scans have indicated that the once soft science of personality typology can actually be measured in brainwave activity.

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