In this audio, you’ll learn why so many people feel stuck in lives they didn’t choose — and how to break free. We explore seven signs you’re living someone else’s story, how personality type offers a map to reclaim it, and why your wiring isn’t the problem — it’s the path. Discover the three levels of growth: see yourself, see others, and navigate life with clarity.
Press play to listen again — or for the first time — and reflect on where your story goes from here.
00:00 - Introduction: Becoming the Main Character
01:12 - The Myth of Life’s Grand Plan
02:34 - Defining What It Means to Be the Main Character
03:39 - 7 Signs You’re Not Living as the Main Character
09:29 - The Answers Are Inside You
10:03 - Joel’s Story: Faith, Marriage, and Reclaiming Power
18:04 - Antonia’s Story: Religious Upbringing and Rebuilding Identity
33:57 - 11 Qualities of a Main Character
40:04 - Personality Type as a Tool for Inner Peace
44:24 - The Three Levels of Conflict
48:04 - Societal Conflict and the Power of Identity
50:29 - Interpersonal Conflict and Living Other People’s Values
53:36 - Inner Conflict and the Struggle for Self-Alignment
1:03:01 - Three Personality-Based Strategies to Reclaim Your Story
1:10:06 - Invitation to Continue the Journey with Personality Hacker
Reflection Questions
As you listen, consider these:
- Where have I been deferring my life — waiting for someone else to tell me what to do next?
- Which of the 7 signs of “side character living” do I resonate with most?
- Am I giving away my power to other people’s values, systems, or expectations?
- What part of me feels uncertain — and what part already knows what’s right for me?
You don’t need to answer them all.
Just sit with the one that stirs something inside.
What Kind of Journey Are You On?
If the audio stirred something real in you — this might be your moment to choose your next chapter with intention.
We offer two powerful paths forward. If either speaks to you, schedule a free discovery call to explore it with us.
Personality Life Path Mentorship
For those in transition, burnout, or a season of personal reinvention
- Guided personal development using your unique personality wiring
- Weekly calls, group support, and self-discovery prompts
- Shadow work, growth tracking, and clarity around life direction
Ideal if you’re ready to stop reacting and start consciously rewriting your life
Personality Profiler Training
For those who want to learn how to read personality types and help others grow
- Learn the skill of personality profiling with our 8-week digital course + live training
- Join a community of 650+ students worldwide
- Master cognitive functions and the Car Model to transform how you see people
- Ideal if you’re a coach, consultant, therapist — or just deeply curious
Not Sure Which Path Fits You?
If you’re feeling the pull but aren’t sure where to go next, we can help.
Book a free call and we’ll help you:
- Identify where you are in your growth
- Choose the program (or resource) that fits your current goals
- Get your questions answered — no pressure, just clarity