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In this episode, Joel and Antonia talk with Profiler Training alumni, Gary Williams about his lived experience as an INFJ personality type.


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In this podcast you’ll find:

  • Guest Host Gary, INFJ, joins.
  • Download our INFJ Personality Type Handy Guide to learn about the INFJ functions.
  • How did Gary discover his personality type?
  • Why does Gary choose to use his Copilot Harmony (Extraverted Feeling) to show up with an energy that seems more extraverted than introverted?
  • Is it important for Gary to have time alone?
  • What advice would Gary give to an Introvert getting into their extraverted Copilot?
  • How does Gary use Perspectives (Introverted Intuition) to make sure that he will have enough energy in social settings?
    • What important purpose does Gary’s Sensation (Extraverted Sensing) 3 Year Old serve?
  • Gary shares some important considerations in how he has designed his life.
  • Why has Gary overidentified with his Accuracy 10 Year Old function (Introverted Thinking)in the past to the extent that he mistyped himself twice?
  • How is it for Gary to be a man who has a preference for Harmony (Extraverted Feeling)?
  • How does Gary use Accuracy (Introverted Thinking) and Harmony (Extraverted Feeling) to help others get to the truth?
  • Can an INFJ feel like they are more harsh than they actually are?
  • What is Gary’s relationship to his Sensation (Extraverted Sensing 3 Year Old )?
  • Which INFJ stereotypes does Gary identify with and which does he not identify with?
  • What advice would Gary give to his younger self?

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  • Ryan INFP
    • Ryan INFP
    • May 25, 2022 at 7:31 pm

    I am going to reply to this again. This comment helped me so much to grasp introverted my FI is so much easier to see why it narrows human emotional situations down into a clear you should have done that to stop them being upset for example. Brilliant.

  • Joanna INFJ
    • Joanna INFJ
    • May 10, 2022 at 7:59 pm

    I relate to the Sensation stuff he talked about – in the past few years I’ve gotten into the habit of walking places as much as I can. It’s a chance to get some time with my thoughts, while enjoying the outside world

  • Taylor
    • Taylor
    • May 6, 2022 at 3:21 am

    On the surface, I don’t think ISFJs and INFJs are that similar.

    And, yes, Si and Ni concern themselves with different information.

    But I was referring to the internal structure of the functions, not their appearance from the outside.

    A lot of people have trouble envisioning what Ni is like, and if I had to explain to someone what its like have Ni as a dominant function, I’d say exactly what I said above; just in the same way Si has a scrapbook of past images which it is constantly comparing current experience to, Ni has a scrapbook of universal ideas which it is constantly comparing current experience to.

    If you can envision what having Si is like, you can envision what having Ni is like, except its not memories you’re accessing; Its like having a flashback to a previous idea you once identified.

  • Ryan INFP
    • Ryan INFP
    • May 4, 2022 at 7:08 pm

    Do you know thinking about it when i do something i can have one way of doing something and by the end of thinking i have a million ways so maybe INFJs and INFPs work the opposite. Well obviously they do but i needed to get it fixed in my head how the description is being formulated. My INFJ brother never asks the questions i ask them and then he thinks and will answer he is easily the smarter one in the normal factual basis.
    I struggle to believe anything everything is possible.

  • Ryan INFP
    • Ryan INFP
    • May 5, 2022 at 7:02 pm

    So the question is why each person chooses what is most important to them. Why does a 21 month old baby remember months before and places objects everything and then when your 4 or even 3 remember nothing of there past. Has your cognitive function stack been set over 3 years or are you born like that.

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