Podcast – Episode 0277 – Your Mess Is Your Message

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In this episode, Joel and Antonia give a live talk from the main stage at Profiler Training in Washington DC about how to find your message in the messes of your life.

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In this episode, Joel and Antonia give a live talk from the main stage at Profiler Training in Washington DC about how to find your message in the messes of your life. #personalgrowth

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  • Matt

    So, this is (as usual) perfectly titled. I have to admit that I pick and choose podcasts from y’all depending on my mood and where I left off in the list that I’m still trying to listen to each one in order (which will never actually happen, but it’s a vision thing). I am excellent at logistics and translation so I tend to be (I think) an integrator. I have a very easy time when it comes to finding “book publishers” though my roommate uses the analogy of Dungeons and Dragons I have a modifier to my charisma skill (it only works with women and only if I’m not actively trying to use it). Anyway (I tend to digress and circumlocute a great deal, which is why I prefer the modern social more of texting rather than calling…

    My point and question are simple. If I had 10 minutes at a microphone I would say 2 very simple sentences and then explain what I meant if someone was giving me questions from the “audience”. My simple, short statment (which I actually kind of hurl at people who I feel are of similar…hippie-minded hug-it-out-because-it’s-4:20 tribe…) would be as follows.

    “Money isn’t an actual thing, it’s a concept that has become so ingrained into society for so many centuries that it might as well be a real thing, but it keeps us from looking at each other and caring about each other. This is a bad thing because every person you ever come into contact with is another human and we are all siblings.”

    So that’s a simple enough thing to say and even to understand. But my vision and my blind spot are the same thing. I hate money, and I prefer to have a sort of loosely defined, but hardcore loyal network of people who pool their resources but only a certain amount of those resources which they enjoy sharing, can share without detriment to their core needs, and have few constraints about how, when, and with whom those resources are shared. I’ve been working on the group for ages but I’m not an alpha or even a beta. I’m a troubleshooter who loves to solve a crisis if it’s within or near my wheelhouse (and I’m not good with the technology, I’m much more tactile and simple in my preferred niches of doing my best to be a hippie in my head but remembering to make enough money so that I can eat and everything while also not working too much to burn out and become bitter instead. I love to integrate. Finding people who need each other and introducing them to each other brings me a high that is akin to the first time I ever…did something I won’t admit to on the internet. 😉

    So if my vision is my blind spot and I’m a tactile, kinesthetic learner who loves people but hates money. How would a Type 2Enne who’s an ENFP learn to not sound like I need to be 5150’d and put on medication? And also make money for the groups development but let someone else deal with the money, social media, marketing, and the technical things that I can’t do and can’t yet afford to pay for? I’ve been stuck on this particular “plateau” for a couple of years and though I LOVE your podcasts, most of the time I just sit, nodding my head and thinking, “Damn, so much same here. So how do I get where J and A are?” I’m kinda getting there (I think) but I’m impatient.

  • Natalie

    This ISTJ doesn’t dislike you, Antonia!!

  • D

    The INTP in me wants you guys to call it the Visionary-Integrator-Calibrator (VIC) model 🙂.

    This has already become a favorite podcast and in some senses helps me realize what has been missing on my own personal journey. Do you think you can have a different blindspot in different context? I think I mainly have the Integrator or Calibrator are my blindspots, but it seems to vary.

    Also have you guys mapped to functions or is there even a correlation. This is mainly going back to something you said about INTPs being able to zoom in/out which seems to speak to both vision and calibration. Obviously the integration seems tied to the whole INTP motivation. Obviously my narrow reference seems to make sense but does this pan out for other types? Food for thought.

    Either way, great content!

  • V

    34:23, second vision-building question:
    What problem have you solved that when other people give bad/incorrect advice around you feel the need to correct?

    What if you don’t feel like you’ve solved any problems? (sorry that I’m younger and that my parents coddled me in their solidly middle class way). How do you…find problems to solve, especially problems that you [feel like you] are capable of solving? Especially as an integrator last in my ‘stack’ (definitely resonate with Antonia’s description of ‘things just happen around me’).

    Perhaps by developing the co-pilot/getting out of your ego? (For me at least, this is definitely the same thing – not sure about extroverts?)

    • Antonia Dodge

      Give yourself some time. I hate to say it, but life isn’t easy on anyone and at some point you will have a ‘mess’ that you’ll be learning invaluable lessons around.


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