Podcast - Episode 0382 - Respecting Your 10-Yr-Old Cognitive Function - Part 1

In this podcast you’ll find:

• The challenge of having a real and true relationship with your 10-Yr-Old cognitive function.
• Check out our article on The Car Model to identify your 10-Yr-Old function.
• Why should we question the relationship with our 10-Yr-Old?:
  • Why the 10-Yr-Old shows up as our “loudest” function
  • What makes this message hard to swallow?
• Existing on the cusp of maturity – the idea of unlocking the unique potential within this function
• What does it mean to “respect” a cognitive function?
• Building a respectful relationship with your 10-Yr-Old, based on the virtues of the function:
• Effectiveness (Te) – ExFPs:
  • The risk of disrespecting resources through doing too much
  • Getting caught in the ‘hamster-wheel’ trap
  • The virtue in slowing down as an ExFP
• Accuracy (Ti) – IxFJs:
  • The pitfalls that come from your internal rationalizations
  • Why criticism prevents you from getting needs met
  • Developing respect for truths as an IxFJ
• Authenticity (Fi) – IxTJs:
  • How Fi can be self indulgent as a 10-Yr-Old function
  • Checking your relationship with “conviction” as an IxTJ
  • What does it mean to truly honor the virtues of Fi through introspective work?
• Harmony (Fe) – ExTPs:
  • What can Fe teach ExTPs about the virtue of connection?
  • The trap of relying on charisma to manage relationships
  • The benefit you gain as an ExTP from recognizing Fe as a “two-way street”
• The overreaching nature of the 10-Yr-Old – how each judging function overextends and believes it can dig itself out.